Why do I see these cute, young teenage twinks at clubs dating obese, balding fat guys in their fifties? And I dont believe in the whole "chuby chaser" concept, especially when it comes to teenagers and twinks.
For example, Justin Beiber would never date Roseanne Bar when he could have Britney Spears. |
| It is not always about looks. Not everyone is shallow. Lots of guys like bears too. Chubby chasers are real btw even if you don't believe it. |
Why do older, lonely fat guys in their thirites offer & pay money for sex exclusively w/ cute skinny twinks? 20 years from now he will still bre attracted to a new generation of twinks.
Is this normal attaction? |
In our culture, what is attractive? Who do you see gracing commercials to show us how we should look? Who is perceived as healthy? Youthful, in-shape, attractive people.
Who is unhealthy? Who epitomizes all of the wrongs with American culture? Who is the laughing stock of comedy routines, and shown to be how we should NOT look? "Older, lonely fat guys" would be your answer.
We have a culture that values skinny-ness and youth. So why wouldn't people be attracted to that?
Add into this answer the fact that most "older, lonely fat guys" are unhappy with the way they are. They wish they were young and slender. So they seek that out. It's normal to be drawn to what you wish you were.
I am not meaning to imply that I condone (or object to) older guys only going for the twinks. But I think it is a function of our culture, and is pretty normal.
As for why they pay for it? I would imagine it's hard to see how else they could get with the people they are drawn to. Most twinky 20 year olds could get with other twinky 20 year olds pretty easily. Why would they want a "older, lonely fat guy in their thirties? Even if that isn't based in fact (I've heard about "chubby chasers" and such), if that's the perception, it might be worth paying for, to some.
Is it bad to pay for sex? Prostitution is the world's oldest profession, but most modern thinkers seem to dislike it. Heh. I guess it's relative. |
How do these fat guys in their mid fifties who are going bald end up dating cute skinny high school twinks? I see this all the time in the gay community. Plus, how do people of such a large age difference even meet up to begin with, yet alone "date" each other?
Am I naive and missing something here? |
| I believe it has a lot to do with money. I know a couple of young gay men who are dating older, financially secure men for that reason and that reason alone. I have *no* idea how they meet one another, I just know that if another young, gay male tries to move in on "Aunt Steve's" much older boyfriend he'll slap the gay right out of them. Repeatedly. He's kind of bytchy that way. |
My friend likes to roam the inner cities of the poorest ghettos, like Flint, & offer cute twinks money 4 sex? Your thoughts... |
| Eh, sounds like fun. I'd do it too if I was 40, fat, lonely, and had some extra cash laying around. |
Do hot tall masciline-ish guys ever go 4 shorter cute guys or twinks? by tall i mean over 6 feet and like athletic or swimmers build body. not ugly steroid muscle lol. |
Some do, some don't, and it all depends on the individual guy.
Being a certain body type in life doesn't program your brain to like certain things. |